Men’s Corner: 5 Mistakes Men ALWAYS Make In Their Relationships

I have always been the “dear Abby” for my male friends struggling with relationships. They yearn to hear a woman’s point of view and want to me to give relationship advice. Over the years I have heard some of the same themes over and over again and I thought it was time to put pen to paper and share my experience with all guys. I have listed the five most common mistakes that guys make in their relationships in an effort to do some relationship counseling.

You Don’t Know What You Want

The whole “I don’t know, what do you want to do?” weekend discussion is bad enough for the whole indecision thing. Being unsure about what you want makes you look weak. It makes me want to send you to relationship therapy. It drives me crazy when a man can’t articulate what he wants from a relationship. It makes me want to leave. I love a man who says what he wants and needs clearly, and often. Then I know where I stand and I can act accordingly.

You Fail to Do Your Part to Build Trust

I believe in trust and I give it unconditionally. I trust a man who does what he says he will do. Men who hang out with former girlfriends, not so much! I trust a man who stays in touch and lets me know when plans change or timing is off. I trust a man who trusts me. My relationship advice is to pay attention to building trust because if affects everything in the relationship.

 

If you want to make sure your relationship doesn’t work, break plans with your girlfriend to hang out with our buddies or watch a game. Men who continue to run with their buddies like they are twenty seem immature and more ready for the frat house than the bedroom. Don’t expect that every woman has an equal interest in sports. When sports come first that tells a woman that she doesn’t matter and isn’t important.

You Make Your Buddies and Sports More Important that the Woman in Your Life

If you want to make sure your relationship doesn’t work, break plans with your girlfriend to hang out with our buddies or watch a game. Men who continue to run with their buddies like they are twenty seem immature and more ready for the frat house than the bedroom. Don’t expect that every woman has an equal interest in sports. When sports come first that tells a woman that she doesn’t matter and isn’t important.

You Don’t Listen So You Don’t Understand

My ex is my ex because he never knew that I hate red roses, that my favorite color was yellow and that I feel strongly about child advocacy. Nothing is sexier or more endearing than a man who listens and understands me. It builds trust and intimacy.
If you can’t do this you may need relationship therapy.

You Don’t Give Yourself to Her

Intimacy is never one sided. Just listening to her is not enough. You need to share your innermost thoughts and feelings with her. Allow her to get to know you. Be vulnerable. She will never forget you.

Hopefully, “this how not to” has offered some “how tos” to improve your relationship with the woman in your life. Just a bit of relationship counseling to help you on your way to being a memorable partner.

Culled from http://www.relationshiptricks.com/the-5-common-mistakes-men-consistently-make-in-their-relationships/

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