• I have never liked the idea of office romance. Maybe because I like to maintain an air of mystery or because I could get tired of someone I am dating, if we got to see almost every day. But, I wasn’t totally o […]

  • When I first started to suffer abuse in my relationship, I was too ashamed to tell anyone about it. You see, ours was a beautiful relationship when we started out and it took me a long time to come to terms with […]

  • Temi sat her desk at work, totally oblivious of every movement around her; her entire being was transfixed on the long sheet of paper she was holding in her arms. About two years ago, she and her husband Tunji […]

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    I remember the first time, I caught Kenny cheating on me. I had found a text on his phone that he had sent to a girl he had hooked up with a few times before dating me. I was a mess, but in the end I decided […]

  • I believe that sometimes when we make our own plans and draw out a blue print of what we expect our lives to be like, God in his awesome sense of humour, sits back and smiles at us like “No child, it’s not goi […]

  • All week, club bangers kept jamming in my head; while working, while driving, in the shower, on school run! Everywhere! In fact, on Thursday, I was in a meeting with a potential client and while he was going […]

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    Lizzy and her boyfriend Jake had been dating for three years, and in those years, they never had money issues. They were both working in the financial sector and contributed financially to the relationship. […]

  • Some years ago, I crash-landed into the deepest pit of my life; mentally, financially, emotionally and spiritually. Life, as I knew it was meaningless, and I had even contemplated suicide. However, like Oprah […]

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    Dear Diary,

    In an attempt to open my “dating pool” I took the advice of two of my girlfriends who suggested I try online dating. For my preferences I chose to date black men and non-black men. I’m an over […]

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    Contrary to what my colleagues and those who are not close to me choose to believe, I am currently waiting for Prince Charming. A lot of people think I am not looking to fall in love, but I am; only, I am […]

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    I know first hand, what it’s like to be in a relationship, yet feel so lonely. Trust me, the only thing worse than a single and lonely person, is someone who is in a relationship or married, and yet feel st […]

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    Yesterday, I had a fall out with one of the guys that has been asking me out. Greg found his way to my BBM list sometime last year, but wasn’t forthcoming about how he got my pin, so I hardly ever re […]

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    I was cleaning my house last Saturday, as my house help was with Isabella at her grandparents’ house, when I heard a frantic knock on my door. I quickly washed my hands and went to get the door. There was my […]

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    My elder brother, CJ proposed to his girlfriend last Saturday, and he really pulled a grand stunt on her. We were all privy to the proposal; his siblings, her siblings and their mutual friends…but everyone ha […]

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    N-I-G-E-R-I-A-N-S can poke their noses in other people affairs ehn! Before now, I did not know how to handle such interference well, and I would straight up give the intruder a piece of my mind and tell the […]

  • Whether we like or not, the rules of the dating game changes per second. It seems as though both parties in the game are playing chess and looking to say ‘checkmate!’ A Bro of mine…(I call him Bro because we ar […]

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    When a man is single, or just moving through the motions without really committing his heart; he won’t self examine or feel anything about him needs changing. But when he finds a girl he really likes and sh […]

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    Biola is a colleague that I have gotten close to over the last two years; she is fun,smart and very funny. There is nothing that Biola cannot turn into a joke, not even after a long annoying meeting with the […]

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    Cookie! Almost everyone’s favorite character on FOX’s hit series EMPIRE. During the break between season 1 and 2, fans made so fuss about wanting their Cookie back…and well, now she is back! With an even b […]

  • Kelechi and his girlfriend, Gina have had so many fights over his homies; Gina simply doesn’t like them. She is cool with Kelechi being friends with them, but she simply doesn’t like hanging out with them muc […]

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