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September 9, 2015 at 11:14 AM #2381
9 Things Men Do When They Are Interested In You
Have you ever wondered what it’s like to read other people’s minds? Here are 9 essential signs that will always help you find out if the guy is trying to flirt with you.
We cannot teach you read his mind, but we are capable of teaching you to read his body language which is quite efficient. Check out the following 9 signs telling that the man is really keen on you.
1. The closer the better!
The more often you notice the guy around you the better. This happening only when he is really into you. Indeed, why would someone who is indifferent to you want to see, hear you or simply be noticed by you? If you also find him attractive, let him know by flirting back, smiling or just saying a friendly “hi”.
2. Eye contact
This is something that you cannot rely on 100%. Nevertheless, pay attention to it. There is no need to avoid eye contact if you like the person. During a conversation this merely means that you are listening to the person and that you are fully focused on what he is saying. If you noticed that eye contact lasts longer, then the guy is likely to be genuinely interested in you. On the other hand, a short eye contact can be as expressive as a long one. It all depends on the person’s temperament and character. Some guys might like you a lot although their eye contact will be rather short.
3. Hands on hips
Do not ignore his posture. If his thumb is in the belt loop or he prefers to hold his hands on the hips, then he is certainly interested in you. This kind of posture tells a lot about the guy’s temperament and character. Such signs are typical of very self-confident people. Some ladies do not find it attractive at all, though, and interpret it rather impolite and sometimes even rude or offensive.
4. A flirting touch
It’s absolutely normal if you notice that from time to time he gently touches you. It means that he needs even more of your attention. Did you enjoy his touch? If yes, then, then continue communication. You can even touch him back. Make him feel wanted and show him that you are also attracted to him.
5. Raised eyebrows
Less courageous guys usually hide their eyes when they are around the girls they like. This is quite natural and even charming. But if his eyes open wide and his eyebrows raised, this can be interpreted in one way only: he is definitely into you. Watch for this sign during your conversation.
6. His warm-hearted and sincere smile
A smile is by all means a positive sign. Smile back at him and let him approach you. This will make your very first contact friendly and warm. Please do not be shy and come up to him first if you like him. Expressing your friendliness first is never impolite. A small talk about this and that to break the ice is also a good idea. Be yourself! Be simple, polite, and down-to-earth. This will help to release the tension between your potential boyfriend and you. Do people consider you a tough nut to crack? What we suggest is that you leave your ambitions and attitude for a while. Finally, always keep in mind that you will never get a second chance to make a first impression.
7. Head Tilts
Some girls might not even know about that, but head tilts tell a lot! The way he tilts his head can mean that he is all ears and wants to hear every word you say. That’s a good sign. If the guy does is not fully involved in the conversation, then he is probably not as impressed by you as you would like. Being a good listener is a rare quality, especially if we are talking about men. Enjoy being listened to by someone who likes you and appreciates you as a person who is interesting to talk and listen to.
8. Avoiding Eye Contact
Does the guy you are with avoid eye contact? No worries! He is hiding his eyes just because he is shy. It does not mean that he isn’t happy to see you. On the contrary, he adores you. This is what would happen to any one of us if we met someone we idealize, worship, and appreciate. Being around someone you have got a crush on isn’t easy. All you can do is to make him feel comfy. Be friendly and polite to him. That’s all.
9. Mirroring technique
Mirroring means repeating movements of the person you are with. They way they talk, walk, smile, etc. Have you noticed that he copies some certain actions you do? That’s fine. Be understanding and realize that he cannot control what is usually done unconsciously. Some of the most advanced dating sites suggest mirroring technique because they find it quite effective and helpful. It’s pleasant to have someone who is so much into you that they even copy you. It is said that copying is the ultimate form of flattery!
Culled from http://wmnlife.com/
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