It’s not the Men! It’s You!
There is a popular saying that you can’t keep doing things the same way and expect different results. And there is the biblical saying that you should first remove the log in your own eyes, before you can see clearly to remove the speck in your friend’s or neighbour’s eyes. Ladies, this article is all […]
When Is It Okay For A Woman To Have Sex With a Man?
How do you know when it’s okay to sleep with a guy? I discussed this back in March, but most of you weren’t reading then. So forgive me for recycling, but my views haven’t changed, and you definitely want to get in on this discussion… No doubt about it: The first time a woman beds […]
10 Signs you’re Someone’s Rebound Relationship
A couple of times, Amaa has found herself in rebound relationships, where she knows she’s just using the guy to while away time, until she gets over her last romantic time. I know that doesn’t speak well of her, but as they say, the only way to get over a fall is to climb back […]
No Cinderella Story…
Sade was your average city girl; she was pretty, smart and very sociable. But she didn’t talk to any guy without a known family name, or, at least, a solid bank account! Girl was out for pedigree and fortune. She was from a middle class family, but they started off poor. In the beginning, […]
Dating Diaries: He Was Different But He Did Not Stay Long In Town – Jackie’s story
Jackie is a student studying English literature. She loves to read and hang out at shopping malls. She met Ben by chance at her favourite mall on Valentine’s Day. I was spending the afternoon studying at a coffee shop in the mall, intrigued by my existentialism philosophy reading material and highlighting as I skimmed. I noticed […]
4 Ways To Love A Woman Who’s Got Everything
I remember clearly, the epic response newly engaged Adesua Etomi gave a follower, who hinted that she had hit jackpot by hooking her singer fiancé, Banky W. She replied, “I make my own money. I bagged myself a ‘GOOD MAN’. A money bag isn’t hard to find, but a good man? That ain’t easy. I’m […]
Men’s Corner: The 5 Cardinal Rules of Breaking Up For All Men
There comes a time when this inevitably happens in a relationship. No matter which end of it you’re on, these are the only five rules to follow. Breaking up is a little like field-dressing your own chest wound. You don’t have a choice. Your heart’s still thumping in there somewhere. Do it right and the […]
True Confession: I Only Stopped Being His Mistress When His Wife Got Pregnant
I had a crazy crush on a man I worked with. Crazy as in, when he came into my office, I had a hard time thinking of words like “hi” or my name. I blushed at the sight of him. I spent all day looking forward to seeing him. It was ridiculous. Years went by […]
The Wrong Reasons To Get Marry
I love weddings… I mean, the actual exchange of vows. Weddings are one of those special occasions in life and these days, I find myself trying to comport myself when a new couple say their vows. Regardless of whether it is the classic “For better, for worse” or a funkified version of the sacred […]
Men’s Corner: 5 Mistakes Men ALWAYS Make In Their Relationships
I have always been the “dear Abby” for my male friends struggling with relationships. They yearn to hear a woman’s point of view and want to me to give relationship advice. Over the years I have heard some of the same themes over and over again and I thought it was time to put pen […]